"AS A LITTLE CHILD"

Deepening the Walk

How can you deepen this experience? Here are several pointers:

Take time to pray. The Bible says you should pray three times a day (Psalm 55:17; Daniel 6:10). If at all possible, do so. But more than that is needed. Although both the Bible and Spirit of Prophecy are clear that, both in public worship services and private worship devotions, we should kneel when we pray,—do not imagine that is the only place to converse with Him! When not in a time of personal or public worship, the greater number of our prayers occur as we sit, stand, walk, or work.

"There is no time or place in which it is inappropriate to offer up a petition to God. . In the crowds of the street, in the midst of a business engagement, we may send up a petition to God, and plead for divine guidance, as did Nehemiah when he made his request before King Artaxerxes." 2 Selected Messages. 316.

 Far too often we think that prayer is only for asking for things. It is too easy to fall into an unbalanced "gimme" religious life. But if you love someone and like to be with him, you talk to him about all kinds of things.

A significant amount of your time with God is spent in sharing joys and discoveries about how wonderful He is. There is a lot of thankfulness and praise in such a life. It would injure a human being to keep telling him how wonderful he is, but it does not hurt God; and, doing so, it greatly helps you.

When you cry to Him for help, always have the attitude, "If it be Thy will." You have needs, and you will want to call upon Him for help. He delights to provide your needs. But remember that it chokes off the experience if all you ever do is talk to Him when you want something. Let there be lots of expressed thanks, hopefully, more than there is beseeching Him for help. Such a ratio will greatly strengthen your hold on Him! But never be afraid to ask Him for help. He waits to hear and answer. Many times, amid this walk, He will help before you call—or are even aware of the problem.

Be cautious about the kind of music you like to listen to and sing, if you would guard the closeness of your experience with God. Avoid the wild music, even though it may be called "Christian." Screaming music, pagan drumbeats, feverish tempos do not help anyone draw near to God. All they do is give you an artificial, shallow excitement. But excitement for its own sake is worldly. You want to hear the still, small voice. Exciting music militates against one's walk with God. This is a key diagnostic factor: Is it calm or does it tend to be wild? Also beware of gloomy mood music.

Your time with your Father is calm, peaceful, sweet, and happy. You no longer need artificial props to keep you from depression. Those days are gone, as long as you remain close to God. Now you have the real thing; you have your wonderful Father with you.

Peacefully sing the sweet hymns and gospel songs. They will bring you both courage and a sense of Father's presence. There is more strength from singing a little song to God—even though your voice may be unsteady,—than in listening to one; yet both can be helpful.

When possible, at times keep a songbook open nearby where you work; and, noting a title, sing one from memory as you work or drive. If you have a hard time recalling songs to sing, buy a small pocket notebook, and jot into it a num.­ber of gospel song and hymn titles. Open it, catch a title, close the book and begin singing happily (or softly, depending on your surroundings) to your Father. It matters not if you remember the words. Make up new words as you go. The writer does this all the time.

Keep a Bible or Spirit of Prophecy book open. Every so often read a few sentences, and then think about it as you work.

Play Bible and/or Spirit of Prophecy tapes. Hearing the Word of God is far more powerful, in helping you maintain a closer walk with God, than hearing music. Do not forget that. The pure words of God are also better than sermon tapes. Listen to Bible and Spirit of Prophecy audiocassettes as you have opportunity. Have one ready to turn on, as you work around the house or drive in the car.

You can obtain Alexander Scourby readings of the Bible.

Spirit of Prophecy tapes can be obtained from us. The author has found the five-volume Conflict Series, Steps to Christ, Thoughts from the Mount of Blessing, Christ's Object Lessons, Ministry of Healing, Messages to Young People, and Education to be especially helpful.

Never, never, never doubt God! Never question His Word, what He does, or what He does not do. Never mistrust Him, and never blame Him. Always believe that everything He does is good and right, for it always is. God is, in no way responsible for much that happens in our world. He does not cause the accidents. It is the devil who produces the terrible storms and cataclysms which kill innocent people. Scripture is clear that God will finally destroy the incorrigibly wicked. But He never, never does anything to injure the innocent. A temptation to question God may be presented to you, but recognize it for what it is: a device of the devil to take possession and destroy you.

It brings strength to keep your eye on the future, immortal life. Yes, there may be problems down here; but, on the other side, every question of our earthly life will be resolved. It is of interest that, the closer your walk with God, the fewer questions you will want Him to answer in heaven. The problems of life are generally the result of mistakes and sins, either ours or others. God is not to blame.

Spend your time finding ways to help others. There is a world of difference between the person who lives for himself and the one who is trying to help someone else. The more you are trying to help others, the closer your walk with God. Living merely to gather for yourself, adorn yourself, and keep for yourself—will destroy you. Self-centered living dries up the soul.

Share your experience with others. Tell them how good God is, what He has done for you, and how He can help them. Point them to God's Inspired Books. Share the last-day messages, found in Great Controversy, with them. Share books and papers. Be a little missionary. Study the things of nature, and they will deepen your love for God and your walk with Him. That is a promise. If you see an ant or caterpillar, bend down and thoughtfully watch it for a moment. Talk to your Father about it; with joy on your countenance, springing from a heart in love, praise Him for all these things. The study of natural history has been a deep source of encouragement to the present writer, in deepening the walk.

Value your heavenly Father, and value time with Him. Love to be with Him. Take walks with Him out-of-doors. Talk to Him about the wind in the trees, the bird songs, the sound of the cricket, the clouds overhead. Everything is a blessing, yet appreciated by so few.

Do not let your special prayer time with God degenerate into a nothingness. The key is His Word. If you do not have a purpose to your prayers, open the Bible or Spirit of Prophecy, read a little, and pray about what you have read. Have a prayer list and pray for those who need help.

Try to live in the country! Our Father never intended that any of His children live in the cities. He wants us out of them. Yet know that you can be in a prison cell, stripped of your Bible and friends, and yet be able to maintain this experience. The promise is given, as thy days, so shall thy strength be" (Deuteronomy 33:25). In the midst of most difficult circumstances, God will draw especially close to you.

Make sure, wherever you go, that He is with you. Only go as fast as you have time to keep Him by your side.

Eat and live as healthfully as possible. It makes a difference! Avoid everything which clouds the brain or animalizes the nature. Study healthful living. Let every day be an experiment in how to live and eat more healthfully. Eat simply, sparingly of only good, nourishing food.

Maintain a balanced, daily routine. As you travel through each day, note those things which, during that time period, have weakened your hold on God. A thoughtless word, a second helping of potatoes, white sugar which got into the food. It all makes a difference. Do not be a person who cannot think. Reason from cause to effect. Each evening, consider how you could have done better that day, and determine that, with Father's help, you will not do certain things again. Get enough rest at night. As you get older, lay down and rest for a few minutes every so often through the day. There is no need to put yourself in an early grave. The Lord needs your help in the world. There is much to be done, and there are not enough to work with Him in doing it.

Do not practice being disgusted. While preparing lunch today, the present writer spilled some raw carrot pulp on the floor. He smiled at his foolish ways, bent down, and picked it up. Some people think they need to act disgruntled every so often. They think they need to grimace their face, speak an angry word, and thus prove their mastery of the situation. That is practicing to be like the devil. You serve a different Master. Act godlike. Be gentle, affable, kind.

Refuse to be angry with your wife or husband. Instead, humbly tell the other one you are praying for him. And mean it. Others can tell when you are sincere or being sarcastic.

Control yourself. Irritability is a choice, and only becomes a habit if you let it be so. Negative feelings and harsh words will stifle your experience and injure your health.

Reduce those situations, which cause you to be angry, yell, or scream. Whatever happens, you have decided that you will no longer do it. Many mothers have a problem with this. If your child makes you scream, sit down with him and explain that, from now on, you will speak softly three times, and then you will spank. Henceforth, he will no longer think he can do as he likes—until you become angry. If your dog will not obey without being yelled at, then get rid of the dog. The canine is training you to yell. Buy a canary instead. Be serious about being a Christian.

You cannot have God by your side if you are carrying a grudge. Perhaps you have people you need to apologize to. Make it right.

Choose to be cheerful. Live a radiant, thankful, happy life. It is as easy to choose happiness as feeling miserable. So choose the sunny side. This is extremely important. Do not expect a close walk with God if you are grumpy, frequently disgusted, or sour. It cannot happen. Feeling happy is more of a choice than the result of circumstances. The presence of God is above circumstances. Even people who are bedridden can be a ray of sunshine to all around—because they have God with them. You can praise Him in spite of the physical pain. Remember that the future is extremely bright! an eternity with Christ.

Many years ago, in the ministry, the present writer conducted the funeral sermon for Sister Bell, one of his church members. For about a decade she had been bedridden, but she was a sunbeam. Beside her bed was a telephone and a local directory. Her spare time was occupied with dialing numbers at random and encouraging them in the Lord! Wherever you are, you can spread sunshine.

Do not expect your emotions to be on a continual high. Ongoing living with God is calm—with a quiet, peaceful sense of happiness. Do not study your emotions. Live for God, others, and the duties of the day. Choose to be cheerful, in spite of what happens. Doing something to push up the emotions only weakens and depresses the soul.

In regard to your children, your spouse, your home, and your finances, everything will work out better if you remain with God. Do not think that doing anything, which separates you from Him, will in any way help you—or them.

For example, if the devil can get you to think that losing your temper can help you deal with a bad situation, he will give you an abundance of bad situations. If you think that a personal crisis is reason enough to temporarily abandon God and right principles, then the devil will lead you from one crisis to another.

When others praise you for what you do, just reply, "The Lord did it." "Without God's help, it could not have been done." Avoid giving or receiving flattery. It eats the heart of everyone's Christian experience.

Do not let others applaud you, and do not applaud others. No applause, verbally or with your hands. Everyone is injured by it.

If you are not as successful in life as you would like, be content. You have the Lord with you, and that is more important. Success separates many people from God. Sometimes He has to keep His children in lowly circumstances, because they would not know how to handle much success. Wealth ruins most people who have it. When Satan knocks, run quickly to your Father. Do not parley with the devil. Do not take time to consider his enticing thoughts. The apparent "pleasures of sin" are a mirage. There is no happiness apart from God, not a particle of it. The devil knows this, and you ought to also. Flee from Satan's temptations by running to God. Do not make this walk an on-again-off-again activity. It is a bad habit to get into. Some people think they can just leave God occasionally for this or that activity and then come back to Him. All such are strengthening cherished wrongdoing, and they may lose out in the end.

Do not dally with the devil. Do not sin. There is great danger in doing this. Yes, it is true that the power to resist is totally from God, but the decision is totally yours. If you do not do your little part in rejecting the devil's offers, God cannot do His big part in empowering you to walk away from a wrong path.

"The part man is required to sustain is immeasurably small, yet in the plan of God it is just that part that is needed to make the work a success." Amazing Grace, 319 [Italics ours].

"The work of the Holy Spirit is immeasurably great. It is from this source that power and efficiency come to the worker of God." Review, November 29, 1892 [Italics ours].

Be very, very careful about those more lasting decisions: your friendships, where you live, where you work, where your recreation is, and who you marry.

When problems arise, trust them to the Lord. When you do not have problems, remain just as close to Him. Do not practice "foxhole religion." Far too many people only turn to God when they have troubles. Afterward, they stumble back to relative indifference and neglect of their Creator. But you have chosen to be different. You want to be with Him all the time! And, oh, the deep awareness of peace it will bring into your heart. No strong emotion most of the time, just a calm happiness.

When your desire, your will, conflicts with God's, what should you do? This will occur frequently, often deceptively—beginning with something very small. Satan has come, oh, so quietly, to call you from God. The still, small voice of duty directs you one way, but you want to resist, hold back, do something else. You are on the verge of stepping over the line from childlike reliance to childish desertion. What should be done?

Stop! Pause and refocus. What is the right thing? Then, do not dally; quickly yield! Accept God's way, ask Him to forgive you for what you were about to do or are beginning to do. Thank Him for His love, and do what He wants. Stay in the right path.

Imagine what it would be like if God left you alone, no longer convicted you of the right, or offered the strength to do it! How horrible. You would forever be the helpless captive of Satan. When God speaks, immediately obey!

More on this topic in later chapters (When in Danger of Slipping and Finding it Again).

You must spend time alone with God! Time in prayer, time reading His Word! Without this, you cannot maintain the deeper experience. Someone will say, "I cannot. I am crowded into a small apartment, and we have several children." Several years ago, I heard of a woman who said something like that to an evangelist. She lived with her family in one or two rooms in the city. Her heart cried out for a way to come close to God. The evangelist told her to go home and make room for a place where she could be with the Lord. Arriving home, she walked over and pulled a dresser sideways across a corner. Then, every so often, she got behind it on her knees and cried to God in prayer. Everyone in the home knew that when Mother got behind the dresser, they were not to bother her. Surely, your experience is not that difficult; yet, just as she succeeded, you and I may too. Remember: However you do it, you must spend time with God!

"Prayer is the breath of the soul. It is the secret of spiritual power. No other means of grace can be substituted, and the health of the soul be preserved. Prayer brings the heart into immediate contact with the Wellspring of life, and strengthens the sinew and muscle of the religious experience." Gospel Workers, 254-255.

Go outside and pray. If you live in a place where it is safe to do so, walk outside and pray. This is a helpful—and healthful—adjunct to your time with God. Perhaps you will want to carry a small Spirit of Prophecy book or Bible in your hand and read a sentence or two from it from time to time.

Live to help others. The more you are working for God, trying to help and bless others, the more your problems will tend to shrink down to a more manageable size.

Keep in mind that the voice of duty is the voice of God (Ev 688; also in TM 402). If it is your task to spend the next hour washing dishes, hoeing the garden, or scrubbing floors, that is the work God wants you to do right then. Christianity is not ivory-tower living, sitting around in splendid religious idleness—while others do the work. When you are not sure what to do next, you will find it generally is the next duty, which should be tended to.

There will be times when you are too tired to think. This is not some magic 24-hour-a-day experience which we are talking about. At such times, just rest in His arms. You may be driving down the road, working, sitting, or laying down. After 6,000 years of human ancestry, our bodies are often tired, physically weakened, or in pain. Trust quietly in God, rest, and keep pushing forward. He is with you as long as you want Him with you.

Sometimes you will just be with Him in silence. There are times you will just want to fall down on your knees by a bed or couch, not saying much—for you feel exhausted. You just want to be near Him. He fully accepts you at this time, as He did earlier in the day when you felt better.

There will be times when Satan will draw near to depress or discourage you. Trust in God and hold tight to Him. At times you will cry to Him for help to keep holding on. He is listening, He loves you, and He will send help. Remember the promise to Ellen, which is for us today: When you need to, you can ask Father "to send another angel"—a second angel—to guard and care for you (Spiritual Gifts, Vol. 2, 63).

Do not think that you have to always be on an emotional edge, doing certain things, saying certain things. He loves you as you are. Just love Him with all your heart, and—what you do—do for Him. He will gently lead you along.

Do not always be on the go. Take time to just sit down and be quiet. Go for a quiet walk. Have you noticed that the more things you do in life, the more there is to do? There will be times when something has to be done, and you must move quickly and decisively. This is understandable, and God will help you. But it is neither wise nor necessary to always be on the fast track.

Remember the experience of Hezekiah. He had prepared; and, when the crisis came, he was prepared (PK 351). Prepare your spiritual defenses now. Acquaint now thyself with God. You know not what emergency may come tomorrow. Do all your daily duties as unto the Lord; and in the process of doing the work before you carefully and well, you will grow stronger in Christ (COL 360).

Do not try to be equal with God. You were not made for it. Yes, you may be His friend, brother, heir, and joint heir—but, at the heart of the daily walk, you will always be His little child. The faithful in heaven (the 144,000 in Revelation 14:4 and all the faithful in 7:17) will be those who follow the Lamb withersoever He goeth, because they did it down here. That sounds like humble children following their parent—and that is what it is. Only he who is humble enough to be God's child on earth will be His child in heaven. The big people will not be there.

Real live Christians say "amen" and "yes" when they hear something especially good or true, in talks or prayer—It may sound old-fashioned, but doing so will strengthen your faith and the faith of others. Indeed, we are told to do so (5T 318; 6T 383). It is a type of public stand for God and the right.

Do not go beyond Scripture! Beware. Read again about Thomas Munzer and his fanatics (GC 191-193). Fanatics combine pride and secret sin with pretended holiness and extreme views. They reject basic Scriptural truths and seek to dominate others and gain followers. Have nothing to do with them, and do not enter that treacherous path yourself. The Bible and Spirit of Prophecy provide the truths you must remain with. Any time someone demands that you accept his religious views immediately, leave and take your loved ones with you. Always be distrustful of self.

Beware of speakers or writers who urge you to set aside the Spirit of Prophecy. They will tell you that only the Bible is to be used, and then they twist passages and present errors. They want you to accept their interpretation of the Bible instead of the divinely inspired Spirit of Prophecy explanation of it! Any time someone downgrades the Spirit of Prophecy, beware. If a speaker does it, take your family and leave.

The Inspired Writings (the Bible and Spirit of Prophecy) are superior to your mind. Submit to them. They are bigger than you are. Your mind is not the arbiter of right and wrong; only God and His Word are.

Never develop or accept supposed "new light" which is not clearly stated in the Bible and/or Spirit of Prophecy.

Do not imagine that, by following the ideas in this book, you are going to rise to some superior holiness. If you follow the rules for communion, laid out in God's Word,—it will be your obedience, humility, and sense of self-distrust which will deepen. Fall down before God and be broken! Do not let the devil tempt you to spiritual pride. We are nothing, except to the degree we are united as little children with our Creator. You will, indeed, gain a deeper experience; but, if you are at all proud of what is happening,—the devil has placed a worm in your heart, and you will soon fall.

Walk humbly with thy God. Do not presume to think you are smart enough to improve on His guidance. The thought will come to mind to think or do something which a small voice will tell you to avoid. Train yourself to sense the danger in such a situation. When such a danger threatens, quickly resubmit yourself to the Lord and do what you know to be right. A favorite approach of Satan is to suggest the thought that you are able to take care of yourself. You are not. You must remain close to your Father, or you are headed for trouble. John the Baptist had carefully studied the science of guarding against the stealthy approach of the enemy of mankind (DA 102). We must do it also.

Recognize that Satan is always trying to lead you away. In little ways, the devil is constantly trying to catch our attention and interest. He is constantly trying to pull you toward this or that. But taking a lowly place before God and nestling in His powerful arms—lessens the attractive power of that which Satan offers, enables us to better recognize his lures for what they are, and strengthens us to resist them.

As His little child, you are to defend your Father! Remember the filth commandment. You are not to be silent when His character is reproached. You are to vigorously defend His honor, His truthfulness, and the teachings in His Word (both the Bible and Spirit of Prophecy). This is a solemn duty required of God's faithful children. A lot is involved here. Many lose all their courage when the need presents itself to stand in defense of historic beliefs and standards. Beware, when all men speak well of thee.

"Woe unto you, when all men shall speak well of you! for so did their fathers to the false prophets." Luke 6:26.

"Do I seek to please men? for if I yet pleased men, I should not be the servant of Christ." Galatians 1:10.

Thus we see that there are many ancillary points which can help us maintain a very close walk with our heavenly Father.

There will be times when the sheer realization of your position as God's child and the glorious future He is preparing for you will sweep over you, and you will gratefully thank Him for accepting you as His little child.

My brother and sister, be faithful! We want to meet in heaven!  

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